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Drink Water
Before you give a speech, deliver a sales presentation or make
phone calls - drink one to two glasses of water. It lubricates
your vocal chords, helps your voice and gives you needed fluids
that you lose while speaking. Lukewarm water is best.
Cool water is OK. Ice water is not good for your vocal chords.
Avoid dairy products because they create phloem in your
throat.
Move away from the lectern
When you address an audience move away from the lectern (often
called the podium). Let them see you as more than just a
talking head. You will be both more powerful and more connected
to your audience. If you must see your notes then stand beside
the lectern - and don’t lean on it. Stand strong.
Emphasize your name
While introducing yourself to one person or a group, emphasize
your name, so they hear it, feel the respect you have for your
name and remember it. State, “My name is (short pause) George
(short pause) Torok (smile).” Say it loud enough to be heard.
Most importantly - say it much slower than you normally do and
smile.
Make your name memorable
If your name is unusual, difficult to remember or pronounce,
say it extra slow and repeat it, ‘Torok’. Help them remember it
by adding, it sounds like ‘tore – rock.’ You might add, It
means ‘Turk’ in Hungarian. Or you can call me ‘nickname’.
If you can have fun with your name people will like you. If you
make them laugh with you, they will remember you.
Stand and wait for everyone’s
attention Giving your 30-second presentation at a
networking meeting? Stand, stop playing with your chair and
wait till you have everyone’s attention before you speak. It
might take a second or two. Then when you speak it makes your
information seem more valuable - and they will hear you.
Use action verbs Telling people what you
do? Use action verbs and words that paint pictures of results.
Avoid nouns ending in ‘tion’. Don’t say, “We are in the
telecommunication business.” Instead try, ‘We install and
maintain phone systems for small and medium sized business.” We
specialize in designing customer
friendly systems for busy offices with unique needs.’ Use the
word ‘specialize’ - it means you are
special.
Talk to People
Don’t speak at the audience - instead speak directly
to each individual in the audience by making eye contact with
each one in the audience. Deliver a few words as you look at
the person - then move your glance to another. Too long a
glance is intrusive - too short can appear shifty-eyed.
Smile
Smile when you start your presentation. Smile when you have
stated an important fact. Smile when you want them to laugh.
Smile just after you said your name. Smile when asking for the
order. Smile when you close. There are many occasions to smile.
Use them.
Grab Attention
Your opening must grab their attention and establish rapport.
Reveal an amazing statistic; ask a question; state a quotation
from a famous person; create a visual image, tell a story.
Don’t start with “Today I’m going to talk about...’ That’s
boring.
Laugh Help your audience laugh. Use
exaggeration or surprise. Tell a funny story about something
silly you once did. Humour is tragedy or embarrassment removed
by time. Don’t tell jokes that put anyone down. Humour must be
inclusive not exclusive.
Be Prepared Be prepared - but don’t be so
slick they disbelieve you. People accept your errors. It makes
you look human and imperfect like they are. Don’t fret about
small mistakes - just carry on. And don’t apologize about every
mistake - it over-emphasizes the mistakes.
Speak their language
Speak in the language of the listeners. Engineers need how to’s
and facts - tolerances, specifications & blueprints.
Accountants want numbers - balance sheets, debits & ROI.
Sales people are interested in - commissions, customer benefits
& price. Find out what the organization calls their people
- members, staff, associates, investors or true believers.
Vary your Voice Play with your voice to
keep interest and emphasize key points. Lower your voice to
make an important point. Speed up when you are describing a
process. Ask rhetorical questions which allow you to inflect
your voice. Put feeling in words that naturally lend themselves
to emotion, e.g. family, Christmas, grandma, home, first prize,
baby, vacation…
Close Strong
Make your close memorable and effective. Conclude with a call
to action; end with a quotation; sum up your key points; repeat
your opening line; end with a story. Avoid ending with ‘thank
you’ - it is a very weak close - and not memorable. You can say
‘thank you’ after they applaud.
Say Nothing
Practise saying nothing. No, not gibberish - nothing, as in
silence. It is powerful. Pause before you start, pause after
you said something important and pause when you are done.
Your Audience is a Mirror Your audience
will mirror you. If you frown - so will they. If you want them
to smile - you must smile. There are no ugly audiences - only
ugly speakers.
Show Your Hands
Keep your hands where we can see them. We will trust you more.
Hiding them behind your back will make us wonder, “What is he
hiding back there?” Putting them in your pockets may feel good
- but you lose power and might appear too casual.
Let your hands hang at your side. As you speak and become
involved in your speech you will naturally move them. It will
look natural and you will appear more trustworthy.
Look at Them Look at
the audience - not the screen, the back wall, or your notes.
Talk to them - look at them - one at a time. Move your eyes
from one to another as though you are having many one-on-one
conversations.
Show Your Respect
When you ask the audience to respond to your question show that
you respect their response. Pause and look around the audience;
nod your head in approval or show your delight with a smile.
Remember you asked them a question. Show that you really wanted
an answer.
Enjoy the Unexpected Humor Sometimes they
will laugh when you did not expect it. Pause and let them enjoy
it. Smile and show you also have a sense of humor - even if you
are not sure why they are laughing.
Have a Helper
When you speak before a group, always have a helper who can fix
the lights, help with handouts, and usher latecomers to their
seats. When looking for volunteers don’t waste time waiting for
someone to put up their hand - appoint your volunteers. Always
thank your helpers.
Be Prepared for your Worst Question
Always be prepared to handle your worst question. You know what
it is - the one you dread the most. It might be too expensive,
too cheap, too old, too new, too far, too near… When that
killer question is posed you can smile and confidently
give the answer you rehearsed.
Don’t Offend your Audience Don’t
offend your audience by using words like “obviously” or
“everyone knows”. If they don’t know or think it is not obvious
to them you have insulted them and they will not listen to
you.
As a
professional speaker he has delivered over 1,000
presentations. He coaches executives to deliver million
dollar presentations and has trained hundreds of managers,
sales reps and professionals to deliver more effective
presentations.
Yet
George Torok was a shy high school student who refused to
speak to an audience. Since then he learned and developed
the public speaking skills of a professional
speaker.
Contact him to arrange presentation skills training for
your business associates or speech coaching for your
executives.
Call
toll free in North America 800-304-1861 or direct
905-335-1997
Public
Speaking Pro. The resource for promising public speakers.
Public speaking tips, techniques, myths, sins and
resourcesfor
the public speaker who wants to speak like a
professional. How you can be a better public
speaker. How to present like a professional
speaker. How to make the most of every speaking
opportunity. How to turn public speaking into your best
friend.