Extraverts Might be Bad
Public Speakers
Have you heard a
colleague say, “Oh don’t worry about
Bob’s presentation. He loves to talk.
He’ll do just fine.”?
And then Bob speaks – and bombs. Everyone knows
that except Bob. Bob - who believed that he was
a natural presenter because he loves to talk.
Bob - who
craves the audience’s attention but pays no
attention to the audience. Bob - who did not
rehearse because he thought he was a natural.
Bob - who pooh-poohs the faux pas’ because he
enjoyed his presentation, “What’s wrong with
the rest of you?” Bob - who ignored the little
details because extraverts tend to be big
picture people not good with critical
details.
Extroverts tend to be bad public speakers. They
can be trained but they need a lot of help. The
biggest obstacle is their attitude. They do not
want to be trained. They must first overcome
the delusion that they are good. This can be
very difficult for extraverts to accept because
they crave the attention – and believe they
receive attention from the admiring masses. It
seldom occurs to the extravert that they might
simply be the loudest and perhaps an object of
ridicule.
On the learning path extraverts start at the
point that they don’t know what they don’t
know.
Introverts make the best public speakers.
Introverts tend to be better observers and
listeners. The best speakers need to listen to
their audience to see how well they are getting
through. Introverts tend to be better thinkers.
Specifically they think before they speak so
when they say something it is clearer and more
profound. Introverts listen to what they say to
test it against what they want to get across.
Extroverts just want to hear themselves talking
but don’t care what they say.
Because introverts are not naturally born
speakers they will learn the system of public
speaking. They will practice the skills and
techniques. They will be willing to learn. And
because introverts are good thinkers they will
apply the speaking techniques because they
learned the ‘why’ as well as the ‘how’.
Introverts expect to make mistakes and learn
from them. Introverts do not expect to be
perfect while extroverts believe they are
perfect.
Introverts just need to speak up to be heard
and they need to adjust their comfort to
speaking in public.
If you are an introvert – congratulations – you
have the potential to be a great public
speaker. If you are an extrovert – there is
always hope after you get an attitude
adjustment.
Extraverts Might be Bad Public
Speakers
© George Torok is The Public Speaking
Pro.
As a professional speaker he has delivered over
1,000 presentations. He coaches executives to
deliver million dollar presentations and has
trained hundreds of managers, sales reps and
professionals to deliver more effective
presentations.
Yet George Torok was a shy high school student
who refused to speak to an audience. Since then
he learned and developed the public speaking
skills of a professional
speaker.
Contact him to arrange presentation skills
training for your business associates or speech
coaching for your executives.
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